tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5456501159045782104.post3189420095999307936..comments2023-09-05T02:57:32.400-05:00Comments on Just a Girl: Maybe it's just the wine.....just a girl...http://www.blogger.com/profile/01801303901136748904noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5456501159045782104.post-82022978844069089962009-04-01T10:29:00.000-05:002009-04-01T10:29:00.000-05:00Gosh this is so me. I do the same thing when I'm f...Gosh this is so me. I do the same thing when I'm feeling down and I vent on my blog. I worry if everyone will think I'm whining... but it is MY blog, dammit.<BR/><BR/>Hang in there. And vent away!https://www.blogger.com/profile/10112766306021310705noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5456501159045782104.post-76372811962767307392009-03-14T09:15:00.000-05:002009-03-14T09:15:00.000-05:00You have a great blog, and your honesty is what ma...You have a great blog, and your honesty is what makes it so. It's having a window into the true feelings of a complete stranger that makes it readable anyway.<BR/><BR/>I just wish that I would have the courage to open up as much as you do in my own blog.<BR/><BR/>Don't change, I doubt people judge you for what you say, and even if some do, so what?Greg du Pillehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09658537420871025128noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5456501159045782104.post-66838453475477570812009-03-12T19:11:00.000-05:002009-03-12T19:11:00.000-05:00If you can't say what you want on your own blog wh...If you can't say what you want on your own blog where CAN you say it???<BR/><BR/>So AMEN, Sistah!!! :)Big Pissyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11024226667518288383noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5456501159045782104.post-819047795513483002009-03-11T15:24:00.000-05:002009-03-11T15:24:00.000-05:00I don't know what state you live in, but in my sta...I don't know what state you live in, but in my state you can't kick someone out of your house just because it's yours and your name is on the lease or mortgage. If they don't get out, you have to go through the legal process of evicting them. Doing that will get him out, show him you aren't playing the eff around, and can be empowering. <BR/>I know the feeling, like you just can't be the bitch, despite how the other person has treated you. You don't like confrontation, that's normal. But you do have a recourse, and you don't have to be nice about it if you're tired of him being there. <BR/>You're awesome, you don't have to be shooting rainbows and unicorns out your butt 24-7. You are who you are.Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18353422618806779674noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5456501159045782104.post-59472748730388349832009-03-10T13:24:00.000-05:002009-03-10T13:24:00.000-05:00It's sad to hear about your problems JAG.Hope thin...It's sad to hear about your problems JAG.<BR/><BR/>Hope things turn for the better soon!<BR/><BR/>If not, remember:<BR/><BR/>Jack and Coke tend to make the problems at least a bit more fuzzy!Jormengrundhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11513869926202626970noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5456501159045782104.post-24138515273701327302009-03-10T13:08:00.000-05:002009-03-10T13:08:00.000-05:00i haven't followed your blog, i lurk once in a whi...i haven't followed your blog, i lurk once in a while. I had my ex living in my house for 4 months before he moved out. I asked him for a divorce in May and he didn't move out till sept! Once that dat came around, as we agreed i would let him stay till the first week of sept, he suddenly needed to stay longer. he and i have a son together,so it was difficult for me but, i said enough was enough, he lived in my house rent free, did not pitch in for bill and now needed more time to lazy around at my expense! no fricken way. he still does not have his shit together, and he makes more money than I do!<BR/><BR/>It took me a long time to decide enough had been enough. until u are there, u keep putting up with what u want, that sounds a little harsh, but we are the only ones who know are feelings and whether or not we are ready to let go. it took me two years to get the courage and confidence in myself to ask him for a divorce! two years of me being miserable in my own homw, two years of me not being all there for my son and my work! so i know where u are coming from.<BR/><BR/>one day you will wake up and realize it is time to let go, drop the dead weight and move forward.<BR/><BR/>till then u might want to read the book, codependent no more, i only read a few chapters and it helped me tremendously.<BR/><BR/>i wish u the best. we are stronger than we realize.Violethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05143951739558866723noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5456501159045782104.post-69608516709259221302009-03-10T10:38:00.000-05:002009-03-10T10:38:00.000-05:00I don't care if you are jaded, I still dig you, fo...I don't care if you are jaded, I still dig you, for fuck sakes!NucMEd is Hothttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16611729894196665086noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5456501159045782104.post-71941759606881089642009-03-10T08:35:00.000-05:002009-03-10T08:35:00.000-05:00What if it IS the wine? (Kidding...just wanted to ...What if it IS the wine? <BR/><BR/>(Kidding...just wanted to say hi...)Bradhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11311277570019419660noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5456501159045782104.post-50591703352781271702009-03-09T14:56:00.000-05:002009-03-09T14:56:00.000-05:00If you start being phoney, start making your blog ...If you start being phoney, start making your blog a "performance" then you will loose me. I come here because you ARE a real person, and I find that and all it encompasses to be very sexy and interesting. I don't like barbie dolls, lots of makeup or professional porn. I want it real. Keep it honest and I'll keep coming back. ;-)<BR/><BR/>Thanks for being the real YOU.Scotthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07286826423526288591noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5456501159045782104.post-56164299194608369092009-03-09T13:30:00.000-05:002009-03-09T13:30:00.000-05:00That was awesome and I say AMEN sister!That was awesome and I say AMEN sister!Miss to Mrshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03951855414914660623noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5456501159045782104.post-79158627155170505422009-03-09T12:08:00.000-05:002009-03-09T12:08:00.000-05:00The real you is all any of us wants. I have been y...The real you is all any of us wants. I have been your fan from the begining and will be your stalker till the very end. I like you for who you are, and that will never change.Ken Duck Gerathshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11133936808518369841noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5456501159045782104.post-35397059361137727962009-03-09T05:26:00.000-05:002009-03-09T05:26:00.000-05:00I often feel like I am going through the motions. ...I often feel like I am going through the motions. And it often pisses me off. Like, really, what is it all for anyway? I completely get that!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5456501159045782104.post-65218006891319090192009-03-09T03:00:00.000-05:002009-03-09T03:00:00.000-05:00I think we all have days like that, where it's jus...I think we all have days like that, where it's just a bad day. No hormones or situation involved, it just is what it is. But if you can pick yourself up, dust yourself off and start the new day (kind of) afresh then you will be ok.<BR/>I'm sure most people who read don't mind not getting the 'cotton candy' you all the time!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5456501159045782104.post-11988360449204904672009-03-09T02:22:00.000-05:002009-03-09T02:22:00.000-05:00OK, first thing you need to do is tell him to man ...OK, first thing you need to do is tell him to man up and move out NOW. You are letting X control the situation. No wonder you feel violated.<BR/><BR/><BR/>It's like pulling off a Band-Aid. Do it quick and it's a short pain. Be slow about it and it will hurt worse and last longer.RPMhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04294406748353031441noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5456501159045782104.post-62858233039050516882009-03-08T19:08:00.000-05:002009-03-08T19:08:00.000-05:00i may not comment on your posts but i will read th...i may not comment on your posts but i will read them and "get" you. you just wrote out how every woman feels a some point. we are not perfect. no one is. <BR/><BR/>you are you, be proud of that. up, downs, great qualities and flaws. its all one package that makes you who you are. <BR/><BR/>great post.Michhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16939623110147939159noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5456501159045782104.post-56623912849011217762009-03-08T18:47:00.000-05:002009-03-08T18:47:00.000-05:00I don't know the "real" you, but I love to read yo...I don't know the "real" you, but I love to read your blog and I relate to you in many different ways. Especially to this blog! *HUGS**Just Jen*https://www.blogger.com/profile/02342309575441656217noreply@blogger.com